GRAND RAPIDS — “We need healing when we use violence.”

Kevin Vallier is speaking at the Acton Institute’s annual international gathering of nonprofit, faith-based leaders. The Institute is named after the 19th-century Englishman Lord Acton, known best for the quote “Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.” The Institute’s also motivated by Acton’s admonition: “Liberty is not the power of doing what we like, but the right of being able to do what we ought.”

Vallier is talking about the so-called culture wars and politics, in which both sides are prone to extreme hyperbole. The rancor and rhetoric have only increased since the Supreme Court overturned the decision that made abortion a federally guaranteed right.

There is More to Life Than Politics

“I think violence always damages us,” Vallier says, “even if we use it justifiably. I think that is not just true for soldiers who bear the wounds of the violence they have been forced to use, I think it’s true of politicians.” He adds: “What is the use of violence in politics going to do to us, even if we win? Especially if we win. What will we become? Who will we be? Who will be more like Christ in the end?”

As I listen to Vallier talk about violence and the harm it does, I think about the obvious political violence we’ve seen — the January 6 Capitol riots and the unrest over police brutality in several cities. But I also think of the violence of abortion and the suffering it causes — including to our politics.

Vallier is the author of a book called Trust in a Polarized Age and an associate professor at Bowling Green State University. And he clearly feels called to the thankless task of reminding people that there is more to life than politics.

“Every ideological tradition distorts things about others,” Vallier said. He emphasizes that we all have biases, and most of us don’t fully — or even partially — understand the other side’s point of view.

Just shortly after listening to Vallier’s talk, I turned on an interview between MSNBC host Joy Reid and Vice President Kamala Harris. I could feel my blood pressure rise, and I went to Twitter for a good rant. But I stopped myself. Abortion will never be ended via Twitter. And arguing over social media will contribute to making people the worst versions of themselves.

Jesus Must Come Before Politics

Speaking directly to Christians, Vallier speaks about the priority of Jesus. He must come before politics. And there’s a certain freedom that comes from the fact that “the Gospel does not fit any ideological traditions … Christ defies our ideologies … He disrupts them.”

Years ago, now-retired Catholic Philadelphia Archbishop Charles J. Chaput made the point that the Democrats should have never become the party of abortion because so many Catholics were Democrats. Obviously, President Joe Biden and others do not accept Church teaching on abortion. Some people want to see pro-choice Catholics denied Communion. The latter is above my pay grade. But are there things that Christians who disagree on abortion could do to help women, while continuing to disagree about abortion.

Don’t get me wrong: I want to end abortion in America. But I also realize that many people don’t agree with me. I want lives saved, but there are also people languishing — including children in the foster care system. Can we meet in less-charged places and work to find common ground? It could be healing.

Kathryn Jean Lopez is senior fellow at the National Review Institute, editor-at-large of National Review magazine and author of the new book A Year With the Mystics: Visionary Wisdom for Daily Living. She is also chair of Cardinal Dolan’s pro-life commission in New York, and is on the board of the University of Mary. She can be contacted at klopez@nationalreview.com.